There may be a number of reasons behind feeling lonely and thinking “I want a boyfriend so badly” not gonna help you revive the situation. If you are just break up then these thoughts are pretty common.
While staying single has a lot of benefits but if you want to have a boyfriend badly then follow these tips to get a perfect boyfriend of your dreams.
Tips On How To Get A Boyfriend
If you are just broke up then I will suggest not rushing into new relationships. This is to prevent yourself from making the same mistake again.
Let the time pass and repair your heart. Further, decide whether you want a relationship or not. Ask yourself – are you ready for a boyfriend? If you get the answer “Of course, I want a boyfriend so badly!” then its time to get one.
1. Be Prepared And Don’t Let The Past Ruin It
Even if inside you feel desperate and lonely inside I will advise you to take your time to get prepared and forget the past. It can take a couple of days or even months but you need to work to heal yourself.
Further, be confident about yourself that you can take care of yourself. This will help you a lot to come back as a confident woman. Just keep one thing in mind that your past can ruin your future, so act accordingly.
2. Start Giving Focus To Yourself
This is one of the most important tips in this list. Give yourself time to get prepared. Join yoga classes, get spa treatments, read magazines to improve yourself.
By doing this you will help yourself to become fit, attractive and confident. Remember, the best way to find a boyfriend is to not be looking for one. So do things you and someone great will come along.
3. Start Using A Dating App
I personally don’t like dating apps but some people love them. It all depends on your personality and your experience with them. I have lots of clients with good success using dating apps. So, maybe you can give it a try to find out your luck.
Just make sure you’re fair on your dating app profile. You don’t want to lead anyone on due to false information. You wouldn’t want that to happen to you so don’t let it happen to someone else.
However, just be cautious while talking to a guy. With increasing digital use more people create fake profiles, so while meeting with someone from dating apps make sure to go for a public area or bring a few friends along for safety.
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4. Be Open To Guys You Meet
You could meet a perfect guy just about anywhere. He could be the cutie who stops to ask you what you’re reading in the park or your brother’s best friend. So be open to all guys.
These things not happening for you at home! Yes, online dating is a tool you should consider, but you’ll maximize your chance of finding a boyfriend if you are open to the possibility at all times.
5. Evaluate Him With A Set Of Questions
A good way to find out whether someone is perfect for you or not is just by evaluating them. Don’t just trust blindly to anyone whom you just meet.
To find out the basic characteristics of a person prepare a set of questionnaires that includes his hobbies to his work. Further, look for the way he talks and behaves when he is with you. Take your time before getting into any conclusion.
6. Get Ready To Commit
After analyzing him for a period of time if you are convinced that he is the perfect guy for you then don’t hesitate to commit to the relationship.
Further, if you are still tangled in your past then take your time and get prepared. Additionally, you can describe everything to him, if he the one for you then he will understand.
The Bottom Line
Dating is not for the faint of heart. You can put a lot of effort into talking to guys, then going on dates, and they may never pan out. You may start to get bored and think, if I have to get all dolled up for yet another bad date, I am going to hurl!
But remember, all these hustles will land you with a perfect man who will give you the attention you deserved.
